It might be too late for this year…but if you’re stressed about gift giving this year, be sure to set expectations for next time around. Let family members know ahead of time you’re changing your holiday approach. Maybe you decide as a group to draw names? So you only need to buy a gift for one or two people.  Or maybe your gift plan is just for the kids! Or maybe you agree on exchanging a specific gift like books or wine.  Having an agreed upon policy or limit helps everyone enjoy themselves instead of stressing about how much to spend on who.  And it’s much easier to plan!